
Before the wedding on August 15, 2009 Alyssa tweeted: Good morning/afternoon/evening/night. Whatever it is for you, I hope this tweet finds you in good spirits.
The wedding was held at the Bugliari estate in New Jersey. The couples wedding theme was nature and family emphasized by wooden signs directing wedding guests to their reception area complete with rattan chairs and haybails as cocktail tables. Meanwhile dinner was served on antique style farmhouse tables on wood flooring and wrought iron chandeliers. The couple used a wedding planner for this.

This is Milano's second marriage. She was briefly married for 11 months to musician Cinjun Tate (Remy Zero) in 1999. Milano has also dated Eric Dane and Justin Timberlake. From her involvement in producing team sport clothing for women, Alyssa has also dated pitcher Brad Penny and Carl Pavano.